i know this women,she has 3 kids age 3,6,and 10 .
i met her,and she asked me to babysit her kids,in exchange she will babysit my only child age 22 months for free
so i will babysit 3 for free,and she will babysit my only child.
i babysat her 3 kids one time,and she babysat my child yesterday for the first time,when we came back me and my husband,her kids were sleeping on the floor,i told her why did nt you put your kids in my daughters room where there is a big bed that will fit 3 people. she said that they fall a sleep on the floor so she did nt want to bother them.when she wanted to wake them up.i picked up her sleeping 3 year old ,while she was waking up the 2 others,once outside when i put her daughter in the car sit,my husband wanted to give her $10.
i said no,i babysat 3 of her kids for free,and i gave them my daughters food,because they eat a lot,they were not easy and one of them does nt listen to me.i babysat her 3 kids from 4 to midnight,she babysat my daughter from 8 to 11:30.
i gave them food they drank all my water.and that s fine,because i do it for ALLAH.
MY HUSBAND INSISTED TO GIVE HER THE MONEY,and i felt stupid ,so we started arguing.
he said that he feels bad seeing her kids on the floor sleeping ,and feels bad because her husband abandoned her and her 3 kids.and that i am evil for not wanting him to give her the $10.and that i am evil and that he who drink and don t pray will go to heaven ,and that me i will go to hell,even if i pray.
and i had earlier that day gave a big bag of clothes to a mosque,and he told me ,that the people of the mosque are stealer’s who steal the donation money and sale the donation clothes,because a friend who works there told him,and he said they are palestinian traitors who steal money to blow it on alcohol blah blah.
he made me feel like i was a bad person and that for not wanting him to give her money ,i was going to hell.
we starting fighting.
my mom is telling me to just stop bringing that women to my house period,because my husband should nt get between me and my friend.
but i don t want to,i wanted to babysit for her when she wants,and feed her kids,and her kids play with my daughter. and i want to be friends with her.
but my mom thinks that it bring me and my husband problems
i don t know what to do
we are not saved by grace and not work
we are saved us muslims by grace and work and charity
i just want my husband to not get between me an a friend.
i don t think that she s muslim
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ramadan:husband wanted to give money to this lady and i said no,am i going to hell?
This girl is REALLY emo her arms are scared everywhere and she loves pain!?
There is tis girl I hate named Jane. Me and her are 14. Basically, she started drinking a bit. But then she got a kidney infection FROM her constant drinking. Also her best friend Melissa was in a car crash and had kidney failure and needed a kidney transplant. THey tested if Jane was a match, and she was, but they didn’t let her donate because her kidneys were in very bad shape from the drinking.
Her friend was on the donor list but she also developed a virus or something and died because her immune system was shot. She had brain damage toooooooo…….
Ok ever since then Jane had been very depressed and she says that she loved pain.
She loves to cause pain to herself and just absorb it all and she says it makes her feel better. But she wants to keep herself clean after the pain. I have seen her do it alot. I saw her once take a knife and stab herself in the arm. Right after, she wiped up all the blood, put pressure on it, and some cream a a bandaid.
Again, I saw her burning her arm. She said she had scars on her arm so it didnt amtter anyways.. When I was making french fries, she just picked up some of the oil with a spoon, and poured it on her arm in a straight line. It was burning her skin but she didnt look in pain at all!
Then yesterday, I saw her take a pin and stab herself everywhere on her arm. She was bleeding a bit.
She wiped the blood away then she took a nailpolish remover and poured it all over her arm and rubbed it into her cuts. Her skin was going crazy red and irritated and she was loving it!
WHAT SHOULD I DO~!?
Who will the Democrats blame this election?
Will they blame Nader like always? Will they blame ACORN even though they are one in the same? Or will they blame Palin because unlike Obama she was the star on her basketball team while Obama rode the bench. I guess some things never change. Who will they blame this time when they lose this election. Oh and before people start claiming that Obama is ahead in the polls, let me refresh your memories. In every election in the past 24 years that the Republicans won, they trailed in the polls. In fact they trailed quite a bit more than this election. Historically Republicans aren’t likely to put bumper stickers on their cars, put gaudy signs in their front yards, wear trashy t-shirts with the nominee or wear ridiculously large pins. Republicans go to work, pay taxes, donate their time and money to charity and VOTE. Who will the Democrats blame this time? Maybe they should have worn more t-shirts?
I love it…We have the ACORN PR person answering my question. HAHAHAHa the funny thing is that next week he will probably be out of work or in jail…priceless!!
Would this have been a more useful “Cash for Clunkers” program?
Whether there should be a program at all is debatable, but assuming that there is going to be one…
The points of the program appear to be to (1) help the auto industry and (2) improve fuel economy.
So why not simply give the allotted government trade-in credit to people willing to trade in a running car they’ve owned and insured for at least a year if they’re buying a new car with at least a 5mpg increase from the car that’s being traded in?
This seems simpler and more apt to get cars on the road with good fuel economy. As it is, old minivans, big cars, and sports cars with big engines qualify for the program, but little else does.
Mccoyblues–I have a 1997 Honda Accord with 200k and an eroding emissions system. By buying a new car with better mileage, I would help the auto industry and get a worse-mileage car off the road.
Also, if you traded in a rusted 1980s Jetta for a new Corolla with considerably better mpg, you’d get a lot out of trading in a VW for a Toyota.
1993 Pontiac Bonneville SE Should We buy this?
My husband and i know NOTHING about cars .We are going to look at this car today the ad said Intermittant transmission on long drives Whats that mean and is it really bad? o0o here is the ad please tell me what you think is it to much money?
http://www.autotrader.com/fyc/vdp.jsp?car_id=231900779&dealer_id=61297835&car_year=1993&num_records=25&start_year=1981&keywordsfyc=&keywordsrep=&engine=&certified=&body_code=0&fuel=&awsp=false&search_type=used&distance=25&marketZipError=false&search_lang=en&make=&color=&page_location=findacar%3A%3Aispsearchform&min_price=500&drive=&default_sort=priceDESC&max_mileage=&style_flag=1&sort_type=priceDESC&address=49417&advanced=&end_year=2008&doors=&transmission=&max_price=2000&cardist=8
Mileage 229,000 that is alot miles ? How long do cars like this last?
Can someone help me to explain this poem?
I am just a biker.
I saw you hug your purse closer to you in the grocery store line but you didn’t see me put an extra $10.00 in the collection plate last Sunday.
I saw you pull your child closer when we passed each other on the sidewalk but you didn’t see me playing Santa at the local mall.
I saw you change your mind about going into the restaurant but you didn’t see me attending a meeting to raise more money for the hurricane relief.
I saw you roll up your window and shake your head when I drove by but you didn’t see me driving behind you when you flicked your cigarette butt out the car window.
I saw you frown at me when I smiled at your children but you didn’t see me when I took time off from work to run toys to the homeless.
I saw you stare at my long hair but you didn’t see me and my friends cut ten inches off for Locks of Love.
I saw you roll your eyes at our leather coats and gloves but you didn’t see me and my brothers donate our old coats and gloves to those that had none.
I saw you look in fright at my tattoos but you didn’t see me cry as my children where born and have their name written over and in my heart.
I saw you change lanes while rushing off to go somewhere but you didn’t see me going home to be with my family.
I saw you complain about how loud and noisy our bikes can be but you didn’t see me when you were changing the CD and drifted into my lane.
I saw you yelling at your kids in the car but you didn’t see me pat my child’s hands, knowing he was safe behind me.
I saw you reading the newspaper or map as you drove down the road but you didn’t see me squeeze my wife’s leg when she told me to take the next turn.
I saw you race down the road in the rain but you didn’t see me get soaked to the skin so my son could have the car to go on his date.
I saw you run the yellow light just to save a few minutes of time but you didn’t see me trying to turn right.
I saw you cut me off because you needed to be in the lane I was in but you didn’t see me leave the road.
I saw you waiting impatiently for my friends to pass but you didn’t see me. I wasn’t there.
I saw you go home to your family but you didn’t see me because I died that day you cut me off.
I was just a biker. A person with friends and a family but you didn’t see me.
Could you explain this to me please?
I was raised Catholic, but I never really believed that deeply. When I was devout, it was only for a few years as a kid, and I’ve been an atheist since I was seventeen. (I’m now nineteen.)
Anyway, I don’t understand the concept of transubstantiation. It’s gotten a lot of press lately, but I still don’t understand the belief behind it.
I mean, it doesn’t empirically change. I know that, I’ve received communion in the (distant) past and I read it in my theology textbooks back when I went to Catholic school.
And what’s more, the belief is that it’s not bread and wine any more, it really is Jesus’ body and blood, as real and true as the pint of blood you donated at the Red Cross and the body of the neighbor kid who died in a car accident last year. Except Jesus has been dead (yet simultaneously alive) for over 2000 years.
I really want to understand this, because most of the people that mean the most to me are devoutly Catholic. But I can’t get my mind around it!
Can you explain it?
Don’t try to tell me that the Catholics are wrong and the Protestants are right. I’m an atheist, I think you’re all wrong, but that’s not the point of the question or the answer… the point is to come to an understanding.
We are donating some of our product to a charity. Should we record a 0 cost for this portion of the product?
Should we record a 0 cost or how do we account for it? I know we will get a certificate from the charity saying we donated and this is for tax purposes.
would i receive it into inventory as usual and then pay the bill. then do a journal entry debiting charitable donations and crediting inventory?
Will I get a refund this year? pls help?
Question about filing my 2009 tax returns, will I get a refund?…?
In 2009 my wages earned were $2,725
fed withheld withheld $330
social security tax withheld $170
and then I have a form 1099G from Unemployment Insurance
total of UI Benefits Payments $8500
with $0.00 federal income withheld.
I have 1 child to claim as a dependent, and I paid baby sitter while looking for work.
+ I donated about $800 worth of goods to the American Vets & Salvation Army, they gave me
reciepts they said I can use as a tax writeoff. Also I paid my vehicle registration and states
can be a tax writeoff. I didnt go to school.
I’d like to know if Im getting any money this year?? please, tax advice.
Normally when I used to file, I used to get about 5000 back. Help please!
What am I entitled to, with my writeoffs and my dependant, and child care paid?
thanks
the amount earned $2,725 was earned working with my my old company, then I was laid off..
how much do you think I will get?
Will Obama’s cash for clunkers waste more resources than it will save? Is this just another feel good program?
It takes a lot of energy and resources to make a new vehicle even a more fuel efficient one. Shouldn’t the government encourage us instead to keep our clunkers running longer to save more resources than just fuel?
if youre bored and want something to do, take this “if i won a million dollars” quiz!?
What kind of car would you buy?
Where in the country would you move to?
What kind of house would you buy?
Would you give your family any money?
What charity would you donate to?
Would you give your friends any money?
Where would you go on vacation?
What luxury item would you buy first?
Would it change your life?
Would you save any of it?
Would it change your current relationship?
Would you quit your job?
Would you ever work again?
What one task would you never do again?
What dream of yours would you be able to do?
Would you change the way you dress?
Would you change anything about your body?
Would you miss anything about not being rich?
Who would be the first person to tell you?
Would it bring you happiness?
Would you donate to this museum?
Hi all, I am trying to start up a world war 2 museum based in the UK (Yorkshire).
The museum would hopefully have a number of vehicles, planes, papers etc from the world war 2 era, and from all corners of the globe.
In order for me to set the museum up, I obviously need money.
I realise I cannot give you my website address, but would you donate money to such a museum.
Money would go towards runnings costs, purchasing new items, restoring old items etc.
There would also be an online function to see the exhibits we have. What do you think?
Donations of any amount would be taken?
What is wrong with this motto?
My motto: I will quietly and modestly move in my sphere of life and influence without blemish fullfilling my duty as a man, a subject, a husband, and a father. I am pious without hypocrisy, benevolent without ostenation and I will aid my fellow man without self interest because my heart beats warm with friendship. I have a serene mind that is open for licensed pleasures and in vicissitudes I will not despair, nor in fortune be presumptious. I will be resolute in the hour of danger and free from superstition and infidelity. I will acknowledge the hand of God in nature and adore the higher destination of man. To me faith, hope , and charity are not just mere words without meaning, but a way of life. Property, nay even life is not to dear for the protection of innocence, virtue and the defence of truth; therfore I am a severe judge, but will be tolerant of the debilities of my neighbor and will endeavor to oppose errors without arrogance while promoting intelligence without impatience. I understand how to properly estimate and employ my means and will honor virtue even when it is in the most humble garment. I do not favor vice though it might be clad in purple and I will administer justice to merit whether it be in palaces or shacks. I without a courting applause am loved by all noble minded people and respected by my superiors while at the same time revered by my subordinates. I will never proclaim what I have done, can do, or will do; but where there is a need I will lay hold on it with dispassionate courage, circumspect resolution, and indefatigable exertion with a rare and godly power of mind. I will cease only after I accomplish my work without pretension and I will then retire into the multitude knowing that I have done a good act not for myself, but for the cause of good. This is my motto and this is the personification of truth and brotherly love that I will pursue forever.
Would this campaign tactic save public money? (see below)?
Instead of putting up tons of billboard signs, wasting plastic, paper, going door-to-door, annoying phonecalls and emails about elections.
INSTEAD, NEW APPROACH!!!
We have unannounced surprise roadblocks on interstate highways during rush hour. Cars in all highway lanes come to a complete stop and wait (or get out of their cars)
For 10-15 minutes, campaign parades take place in between the stopped cars with amplified microphones and speakers shouting “VOTE for OBAMA” “VOTE FOR McCAIN”.
And that way everyone gets reached out to at the same time. Each surprise show would of course be followed by
“We apologize for the delay, thank you for participating today, if you’d like to make a donation, do so quickly, drive safely.”
Would this be a good or bad idea?